Have you ever wondered why some events create lasting transformation while others fade from memory before participants reach their cars? The answer isn’t in your centerpieces or your catering budget—it’s hidden in a counterintuitive truth that most event planners actively avoid.
The secret? Strategic discomfort.
When I interviewed Heather Wanninger two months ago, she shared something that stopped me in my tracks: “Most of us tend to kind of like the idea of something, but are maybe just a little scared to try.” This insight from the founder of Sweet Lemonade Adventure Club isn’t just thought-provoking—it’s backed by impressive numbers. Her events achieve 80% retention rates and generate over $100K in additional revenue by intentionally pushing participants outside their comfort zones.
The Comfort Zone Paradox
Quick Stats:
– 80% participant retention rates
– $100K+ additional revenue per event
– 90% referral rates
Traditional event planning focuses on making guests comfortable. But Wanninger’s approach turns this convention on its head. Her events intentionally create moments of shared vulnerability—from custom swimsuit fittings in Costa Rica to surfing lessons for first-timers.
“One person had said, ‘Well, no, I don’t think I’m going to do it.’ I said, ‘Okay, so it’s a no for you.’ And her response was, ‘Well, I’m intrigued.’ I said, ‘Okay, that’s all I need to know. You are a yes,'” Wanninger shares.
The Three Pillars of Strategic Discomfort
1. Pre-Event Communication
“It’s over-communicating,” Wanninger emphasizes. “That is something that I have learned. It was not natural for me because I personally don’t need a lot of information to say yes to anything.”
Key elements include:
– Virtual meet-and-greets
– Detailed activity breakdowns
– Clear expectations setting
– Building psychological safety
2. During-Event Execution
“We’re in a space that is so supportive and encouraging and just wants to see you succeed and win too, it gives you that confidence to do it,” shares Wanninger.
Essential components:
– Optional challenges
– Built-in recovery time
– Group and individual experiences
– Continuous support
3. Post-Event Integration
“People tend to remember that very first and the very last,” Wanninger notes.
Implementation strategies:
– Personalized touchpoints
– Physical reminders of achievements
– Ongoing community engagement
– Business application bridges
Real Results in Action
The impact goes beyond numbers. As Wanninger shares: “I got a text from someone who’s going on the Morocco trip with me. She said, ‘Oh my gosh, I just went body surfing.’ I said, ‘That’s awesome. How did it make you feel?’ She’s like, ‘That I’m unstoppable and I can do anything.'”
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
1. Surprising participants with unexpected challenges
2. Forcing participation
3. Neglecting psychological safety
4. Skipping proper preparation
WARNING: Don’t skip these tips
1. Start with Safety
“We’re able to have like zoom meet and greets which is another way to help build that comfortability familiarity with everybody before they walk in the door.”
2. Build in Choices
“No one is ever required to do any of the activities that we have, but everybody knows in advance the things that we’re planning on doing.”
3. Follow Through Consistently
“I will find things that connect. So it’s not just a token gift, it’s not just a souvenir.”
The Future of Event Design
As Wanninger powerfully states: “If God has gifted you with something that is nudging in there, there’s a reason and there’s a reason that you are supposed to be doing it.”
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